Don't look or act my age. Most people guess me 10 or more years less than my chronological age.

More into the look of leather than the lifestyle.
Love the smell and look of leather, but not into the roles and pain that are often a part of the scene...although roleplay at the bars can be fun occasionally. I've been known to direct really intense scenes from the background in backrooms before. Even though I tend to be more of a bottom in the past few years, I'm still more of the dominant in a relationship. I'd be looking for a boy...not a true slave. Complete dominance is not my style. If it's too easy, I don't want it for very long. I want my boy to have a brain and use it, for the betterment of us both. I'm not a "daddy", and don't want to totally support a live-in slave. The right man wouldn't be treated as a possession (well, maybe a little) but as a loved companion. What I do want is a partnership...one that balances the strengths and weaknesses of both parties into a workable whole.

Looking for a man who is strong (intellectually, physically and emotionally) who isn't afraid of feeling. Yes, I'm ultimately looking for a lasting relationship, but I plan on having fun along the way as well. Care to join me?

I live in my own home in a suburb of Kansas City and am looking for someone with whom to share my life. At this point in my life, I am not looking to relocate, but would entertain the notion of bringing the right man here to me. I'm not opposed to occasional threeways, but not to the point where they make either of us insecure. Been there, done that.

Rules of the Road:
(1) You must be gainfully employed. Not necessarily an investment banker with a marked portfolio, but you must pull your own weight.

(2) If we play, we play TOGETHER. And only after we are sufficiently secure with one another that the relationship can take the strain.

(3) No drugs allowed (other than poppers).

As I said, in past years, I've become more bottom than top, but can and will shell it out for the right guy(s). Like I said before, I like the look...I have enough leather to outfit three or four guys in style. You know the rules...ACCESSORIZATION!!!

Anyway, if you like what you see here, give me a shout. It could be profitable for both of us.

A man who is comfortable in his own skin...equally comfortable in jeans & a T, leather, or tux. Gainfully employed, self-starting, reliable & honest & available (physically & emotionally). Handsome (to me, and to others).